An Epidemic of Undifferentiated Family Ego Mass: How Emotional Fusion Shapes All Families - And What You Can Do About It

What if your family’s greatest strengths and greatest struggles come from the same invisible source?
In this enlightening and compassionate guide, Dr. Dan Boynton reveals how the subtle force of emotional fusion operates within every family system, quietly shaping the way we think, feel, connect, and even disagree. Whether your family is loving and functional or marked by unspoken tension and loyalty binds, these patterns are present, sometimes hidden, sometimes right on the surface.
Inside, you’ll discover:

• The real meaning behind “undifferentiated family ego mass” and why it matters for everyone
• Why even the healthiest families slip into cycles of over-involvement, conflict avoidance, or people-pleasing
• How multi-generational patterns of fusion get passed down (and how to break the cycle)
• Vivid, relatable vignettes drawn from real lives and social media stories
• Practical worksheets, reflection tools, and everyday strategies to help you set boundaries and build authentic relationships
• Steps for navigating resistance, managing guilt, and honoring your family without losing yourself
• How to nurture resilience and independence at home, at work, and in your next generation